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    March 08

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    I found that today people like to solve the problem indirectly or indirectly tell people how to do. And so complicated. Sometimes I can't take it. I'm a good listener for everybody but people just play me as a fool. I'm a good listener but I wouldn't give any comment on anybody. On the other hand, I knew what kind of person they are becasue I knw what they dont like and do like. Maybe good listener isn't a good job in this culture. In this culture, we should say more beautiful words to make other people feel happy. All are just fake smile face in this culture. In front of you, they will say how nice you are. After turning back, they will say how bad you are. Is it so called good anyalsis on human being? Second things is that human are greedy. They will never satisfy with what they have. They like to complicate this and that until dead. Thirdly, when people need you, they will treat you as treasure and try to find a way to reduce the workload.  In contrast, when they don't need you anymore, they will find a way to kick you off.
     
    P.S Tomorrow is another good day. My day will be more n more bright in future. Challenge is encourage human to move forward.
    Thank you for the passed. Cos of it I know what I should do it now.
     

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    猪儿wrote:
    dear yinyin, 新照片是在马来西亚啊。。。看你们玩儿的好开心哦,没去过,我也想去。。。。。。
     
     
    Mar. 30
    Yin Yin Shwewrote:
    Dear Yee Mon,
     
    Nice to see ur reply message. I'm very happy to see it and feel comfortable. From your message, I can feel that u have changed alot. I also rarely chat with u for a while already. U made me more impressed on you now... Yeah, u r right. In this world, never ever said the truth unless very closed friends. If i would like to have more firends, I have to act and said nice words to other ppl. Sometimes i just can't take it. I feel very stressful if my life goes on like that..... But I feel very peaceful after I read ur message. It gave me confident to move on. Thank you...... So how r u doing now? Still at University? I haven't seen ur brother online and chat with him for ages. Pls say hello for me if u see him. 
     
    Maria, thank u.... I love u all..... and ur message said who is coming back? I dot knw who lay......
     
    Mar. 14
    Mikiko Misswrote:
    i knew u may want to talk when u called me....and i was waiting 4 you to tell.....but.....
    just let u know, i will always be there 4 u no matter where and when......my ears will be vacanted 4 u all the time....
    Mar. 10
    Yee Khinewrote:
    Hi Ah Ma,

    How are you?  I hope you are fine.

    Life is full of challenges all the time.  Don't let yourself down.  I also got the attitude of "Each day is another new day" and try to stand up again when I have so many challenges and troubles.  This two years, I got pretty much life lessons and some of them were really harsh.  I sort of know how things work here.  Yes! "People Never Say Directly".  But, when you say things directly, you are likely to get into TROUBLE, even though it is the truth.  Have you ever been in that kind of situations?  I had been there.  I don't want to get it back.  It is I who is as a University - international - student (not in a work place).  But, I don't know how much things will get "worse", if I keep saying the truth loud.  So, I don't say things just show them indirectly like them.  I learned.  It was they who teach me to be like that.  I was so innocent when I first met you (in Singapore) and still in my first year in Canada.  But, now I cannot say I am smart but still in the learning process.

    But, please do remember that NEVER say things out loud DIRECTLY, especially bad things, even though they are the truths.  Also do NOT stereotype about things.  That is what I have learned.

    But, each place is different so my place is a little bit different from yours.  But, it is not always like home where I live under my mother's shelter.  I hope you are feeling better.

    Love,
    Yee Mon
    Mar. 10
    Yin Yin Shwewrote:
    Maira, I called u at yesterday cos i wanna talk wit u. At that time, u just woke up cos of my phone call. So i stopped for my idea to talk wit u........ These few days many many works need to be settled. I dare not to call Andy and Will cos I scared their GFs won't like it. haha....  
    Mar. 9
    Mikiko Misswrote:
    good 4 you, if u dont complain on it, but learn from it....
    Mar. 9

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